Why are you a parent? Is this a question you have ever wondered about? I am sure you know all of the biology that goes into making the baby you have. The guy does his thing and the gal does her thing and nine months later a baby comes along.
If you are asking yourself why are you a parent perhaps you should have taken precautions against this happening. You know all the birth control methods out there. Pregnancy is fairly easy to prevent and if you are not ready to have the responsibility of have a child make sure you don’t. If you weren’t prepared at the time and looking forward to it now things will work out!
The Baby Makes An Introduction
When this blessing appears you should feel on top of the world! The miracle created is part of you and, hopefully, somebody you love. If this is not the case please give this baby a fighting chance and the parent that loves him or her keep them while the other steps aside or give the baby up for adoption. All kids deserve a chance at a happy life!
I am hoping you are a couple that falls for this baby right away and stays together forever! This baby will have the security of a mother and father (or some combination) and be loved. If this relationship breaks up the child should still have the support from both of you unless the worst happens and one of you passes away!
Children need stability in order to excel at life. Many of you think you can’t tolerate this or that without trying. I am still friends with my ex wife and we are still friends! It took us a few years to get up to that point after the divorce but the kids were never put in the middle. It has been over 20 years now and I am friends with her new husband and everything is good! Both of my kids graduated from 4 year colleges and are great people!
Children Always Come First
I always preach and will always preach kids come first! It is not your dislike for your ex, your looking for a new replacement, or yourself! You helped created this perfect being so it is your mission to love and take care of them for the rest of your life! If you have the ultimate disaster of losing your child you will be devastated beyond measure as life has really cheated you of the beauty and wonder of your special miracle.
Thank you for reading!